My children crave their mummy’s attention. Whenever they have some problems, they would cry and go to their mummy if she is around. Only when their mummy is not around, then they would turn to me. Haizzz….sometimes I do wish that they would come to me first instead of their mummy. Those times are rare but precious indeed. But can’t blame them also. Whenever they fall down, I would not “sayang” them. They would look at me and knowing that it is no point for them to cry, they would stop crying and stand up and go back to what they are doing before that. Naturally they will know that it is no use to go to daddy. Better go to mummy. With Daddy they will learn to be independent, with mommy they will learn that they are loved.